Am I wrong? yella: My mom just sent me an e-mail telling me about an over turned truck from the same company that my ex works at, and it happened at the same exit that the company is off of.
By the name she sent me (it's not my ex), it looks as if it's one of my ex's friends. The guy had to be sent by med-flight to the hospital. It's pretty serious.
My first thought was "is it him?", and my gut instinct was to worry. Now I'm concerned that it's one of his friends, and I feel bad. So I called to send my condolences for the accident, and said that I hope it's not someone he knows.
Was I wrong to do that? Should I not care?
Re: Am I wrong? So_Lost: Its not wrong to care about someone. Why would you think that? Just because you guys didnt work out, doesnt mean you can't care about his well being.
Re: Am I wrong? jannette Garcia: I dont think is wrong to call him about that. Is not like you're calling him to beg him back..
Re: Am I wrong? yella: I don't know. I feel like it's none of my business, but...
My mom just told me that my ex was talking to him just before the accident happened. I know that'll haunt him.
I remembered the name, and I know who it is. When we were married, one of my biggest fears was something like this happening to him. He never seemed to care. I used to worry so much that I'd wake up when he left for work just to tell him that I loved him and to be careful. It was a routine that lasted almost 10 years.
He can never say that I didn't care. But I stopped caring when he stopped.
I feel bad though.
Re: Am I wrong? jannette Garcia: IMO, I think is normal for you to still worry about your X's feelings...specially with something like that....
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