Re: No one to talk to Freckles: Getting a instant Wife would be Nice
:)
But , I would prob be right back in the same boat I am in now.
:)
What are the Odds on ANY Wife :
50 percent of Marrages end in Divorce
If you are Divorced like me 60 Percent
If you marry someone with kids 70 percent
There is a Odd thing I have found in the Odds
That not many talk about or want to know about.
If both go to Church Together and do Church Stuff
ONLY 2 Percent of them get Divorced
(In any catagory)
:)
I hope to find someone who wants to go to Church with me
:)
Re: No one to talk to spooky: *deleted*
Re: No one to talk to sosad05: I feel your pain. I have children 24/7. I have friends. I even have a boyfriend. But, I feel very lonely. I feel like I am supposed to be over what happened to me. I feel like Im not supposed to talk about it anymore. I think thats why I still visit OJAR. Its the only place where I can feel safe to talk about my innermost thoughts.
Re: No one to talk to Mooneyes: I too am lonely, even when surrounded by people. I find I rarely have someone to talk to about things that interest me. I miss my ex the most at these times... when I want to talk about things like the use of music in the new movie Idlewild, or Rosicrucian relationships to the Knight Templars. Not topics that most people want to delve into. Which I suppose is why I miss him so much.
So I can relate to your loneliness. I think we have to learn to stand alone, be alone. And once we are good at that, then we will find we may be standing with someone else. I am trying to make sure I do not develop a co-dependent relationship with the next person. There are so many traps we fell into before that must be avoided.
Good luck to you.
Re: No one to talk to Wherezmygun: I think anyone who is going thru what we all have and are are very lonely.
You cant go from being with a person for years, sleeping in the same bed, shearing meals, playing with children, just doing the normal everyday things Happy married people do.
so when a monkey wrench get tossed in to the gears of a marrige and messes up the cycle of that life. and people split, of coures we are not going to be happy and we are sposed to feel this way. our bodys,heart,soul and our minds will not let us forget what it felt like to have that person with you, thier smell. thier touch thier everything its is apart of us, so when it is lost we inturn are lost aswell.
wow did that come from me, hope its makes sence to you guys. just hang in there all of you im trying too but its hard. good luck
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