Letting Go 4ever: My story sounds like a typical soap opera. Husband leaves wife and three kids for a girl half his age. Three years ago that was my life being played out for everyone to see. We are still not divorced, he lives with her and I get the responsibility of raising my kids by myself financially, emotionally and physically.
I have the debt and he gets to start over. Playing both mom and dad and working full time hasn't been easy but over the last couple of years I have seen myself get stronger and realized that in the end he 's the one missing out on watching and helping three great kids grow up!!!
But it doesn't help the pain and anger I have go away and I'm afraid that it never will!!
Re: Letting Go Feel: What about your kids... who helps with them and why haven't you seeked legal advice...
Why are you allowing him to live so freely.... MY GOD, 3 years with your kids alone, you can help your life out so much! Didn't anyone in your family or friends help you...
Where are you from?
Re: Letting Go jannette Garcia: Why dont you go to the courts for child support!? That is not fair!!!
Re: Letting Go unsure_anymore: I wish my wife would leave and leave me with my son.
Beleive it or not, I am sitting here reading your post thinking you are lucky.
Re: Letting Go gpiilani: Its only been three months for me since my husband left me with all our responsibilities , and I dont know how I can last another month much less three years!!! You are right, you are a strong person, but you have got to hold him accountable for something!!!! I understand that you may not want ANYTHING from him at this point, but youre just letting him get away with so much!!! Divorce his ass, and get something out of all your pain....at any rate, good for you for being such a strong independant mother!!!!
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