Re: Letting Go Lumpy: [quote author=gpiilani link=topic=33592.msg348097#msg348097 date=1156440436">
You are right, you are a strong person, but you have got to hold him accountable for something!!!! I understand that you may not want ANYTHING from him at this point, but youre just letting him get away with so much!!! Divorce his ass, and get something out of all your pain.
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Bing-Bing-Bing-Bing! We have a winnah! Don't let him walk away from the financial consequences 4 ever. Half the debt is his. The courts can't force him to be a good father but they can make him pay the freight. Look into filing yourself in family court. It only costs around 300 bucks. Your children deserve his support. Don't let the deadbeat walk away.
Re: Letting Go Wherezmygun: you have let this dead beat get over on you for 3 years stop being a fool, take his ass to court get the support your kids need and diserve, you are helping him hirt them and there life by not takeing action on him to force him to help you. sorry to be harsh but its true and you know it! Good Luck to ya