When does the gossip end? cheatedonagain: I have been separated for 8 months but my ex is still going around telling lies and bashing me. He is convincing or trying to convince people that I keep the kids from him and am a horrible mother. How can I keep the kids from him when there is a court order of when he gets to see them. I can't make him show up for them! I don't know how some people can actually believe him! If I kept the kids from him I would be in jail. When he is going to get sick of hearing himself complain and shut the f up!!!! I'm sick of him trying to make me look bad and look like a bad mom. If he wants to talk about what is going on he needs to tell everyone he got caught him his pants down AGAIN and he cares more about himself than his kids! AHOLE!
Sorry...thats my vent!
Re: When does the gossip end? ga_sunshyne: because it is easier for him to pass all the blame to you rather than admit and own up to his own faults... i know it is hard...but ignore him....u know the truth...and one day...your kids will as well.....and he will not be the one to pass final judgement upon you. And you know what has and has not been done....again, i know it's hard...but you'll be the better person for being the bigger person.
sorry you're having to go through this mess.
Hugggsss
Sunshyne
Re: When does the gossip end? PennyLane: I hate gossip...............and bashing.
People do this sort of crap to somehow put themself up on a pedistal. He's bashing you to make himself look better or good. Any true person who knows you well won't fall for this. If they do, so be it. His time will come. I also think he's probably doing this as a form of guilt.
Hang in there Cheat.
