Talking to wife on MSN Mr Nice Guy: Her personal message thing is "If I can't love you then who am I to love?"
I don't want to ask her what it means but she's had things like that up there before.
When we talk though it's always casual conversations re: the divorce and she seems like everything is going fine, talks about guys she has been dating and asks me about my girlfriend and all that...
I just don't know how she really feels. I think before I started seeing my current girlfriend she was looking at our separation as a "see how things go". I feel like maybe I've pushed her away.
She did cheat on me though, and since she told me that I've pushed myself away from her a lot and I really don't want to get back together with her. At the very least, I could never trust her again. She justifies cheating on me as being equal to me talking to other girls on MSN messenger. I wasn't allowed to talk to girls or go to parties or anything if there were going to be females there.
Still I'm curious to know how she feels about the whole thing these days... someone stop me before I start asking those kind of questions! Unless you think I should?
-Mng
Re: Talking to wife on MSN tripny2k6: In my opinion, once a cheater, always a cheater. Would you be able to live normally with her if you could never trust her again? Think about it, every time something happens that is out of the norm, ie. she takes longer at the grocery store than usual, you are going to question what it is she was really doing. Save yourself the stress and worry, keep on healing and seeing your new girlfriend and cut bait.
Re: Talking to wife on MSN iya: i have to say that you talking to other girls on msn is a form of cheating. why do you have the need to go online to speak to other women when you have a wife, isn't being with your wife enough? my husband does the online chatroom thing and that is one of the reason's why i am close to divorcing him. haven't you heard those stories of one spouse falling out of love with their husband/wife because they fell in love with someone they met online and how things always start out as a so called "friendship". my spouse likes to go into online chat rooms and flirt with other women and email them. i am not sure if that is what you were doing too or not before the troubles started, but if that is what you were doing then, yes, i would say you cheated on her too and maybe she cheated on you in her own way to get back at you as a way to hurt you. i know that sometimes i wished that i was a big enough jerk to give my husband a taste of his own medicine.
Re: Talking to wife on MSN monkeygirl: I agree with Iya. The online stuff is dangerous territory and although it may not be as bad as physically cheating, it's still destructive to the marital relationship.
