Picking the scab... missmylife: About every 5 days or so I have a REALLY bad day where I lament the past and wish I was back in my unhealthy relationship. Where we didn't care if each other was alive and didn't speak or touch, snapped at each other, snapped at our daughter, etc... Why can't I let it go. It was so safe and easy to just put up with the crap. I can't help but feel completely alone and that makes me want to go back to the safe and easy. I have my daughter and family and friends to support me, but I feel totally alone! When do the bad days get better? Do you ever completely move on?
Re: Picking the scab... fkunone: [quote author=missmylife link=topic=34009.msg353041#msg353041 date=1157056442">
When do the bad days get better? Do you ever completely move on?
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Q1 answer: When you continuously work for it with wild abandon that the next thing you know, it's gonna be OK.
Q2 answer: Duh.
