Re: Woke up and facing a bad day chaotic: I am sitting here reading these posts about having trouble getting out of bed in the morninng.
You did a good thing going down to the gym and working out.
This time will pass. Take each day at a time, push thru and you will come out the other side a stronger person
Re: Woke up and facing a bad day Balist: Thank you guys.
For some reason, I have been on the decline these past two days. I just don't get it. I was on a plane today and I almost lost it right there mid-air. Took all of my strength to pull myself together.
This is my first overseas trip since the breakup 2.5 months ago. I may have not been ready for all of this downtime. My mind has become my worst enemy. At least at home, I have the support of my friends and many distractions. Nothing like being in a foreign country with limited language skills with really no one to talk to in depth about anything. Just one business meeting after another....
Need to suck it up for one more week, then I will be home.
Re: Woke up and facing a bad day newts: Hi Balist,
Your not alone, you have us and from what you have told me a huge network of really good friends and family.
We are here for you. PM if you start to feel like this, I am sure there are a lot of others on tis site that would be happy for you to PM in times like this.
You are doing well... remember they are bad days, days are days, not a life time of misery!
Re: Woke up and facing a bad day iya: hang in there Bailist, we are all with you. it might also help to see a counsler for yourself to help deal with what you are going through. i know that i am planning too. i thinks its the only way for me to understand myself and what attracted me to a person like my spouse (i hope that we can work things out, but its up to him to really change himself) so that you dont get yourself back into the same type of relationship with the next person, that is also what the social worker recommended me do. :) :) :) you can IM me anytime if you need to talk.
Re: Woke up and facing a bad day Balist: Newts: It is very reassuring to know that I am not alone. It is just being on the road for over 2 weeks, starting one hotel wall after another, I just want to be back home and focus on my life. But this is my job and I need to refocus. Slowly but surely I will get there. My friends have been helpful too but you guys in OJAR really know what we are all going through and has helped me immensely.
Iya: Thank you for your support. I have been seeing a therapist but because I have been on the road, I haven't seen her in a while. I think that is part of my struggle at the moment. Your comment about getting into another relationship is so true.
Get this, before I left for this trip, I meet this attractive successful young woman. I think, I can do this. We start talking, do the whole phone thing and even start to date but then she confesses that she has a boyfriend but is highly attracted to me!! I said I wanted no part of that and will NEVER be the othe man.
What is it with women and monogamy today. Please tell me it still exists!
I definitely will PM you guys when I hit this low again. Thanks!!!!!
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