Re: Need advice...lifting yourself back up? TeddyR: So Sad,
with a new pedicure and hair done today,sounds as though you probably are ready to step out in style.How about a movie night at home or crank a few tunes.Music always lifts my spirits.I know that "alone" isn't helping the matter either,but just know in your heart it won't always be this way.
Re: Need advice...lifting yourself back up? Peaceandquiet: We all go through the slumps and I know that doesn't make it any easier or the ride down any less painful, but with out the downturns in life we would never appreciate the ups.... The feelings that our ex's may never know.. because to me it seems as they are the selfish ones and they are always on a plane in life that is filled with neither the ups or the downs... they just are,, with little feelings left and little remorse. It is us that are left behind.. the ones with the feeling and the ability to understand what it is like to have emotions and to deal with those emotions. we are left better people because we know that we can feel for others and have true feelings.. we are the ones left on the roller coaster.. and one day this ride will stop at the top..never to see the bottom.
Re: Need advice...lifting yourself back up? broken_saint: i know it's been really hard for you. i wish there was more i can do for you. just hang in there cutey, you're doing just fine.
((( hugs )))
Re: Need advice...lifting yourself back up? sweethome: I have the emotional swings back and forth right now - I'm sad, I'm relieved, I'm furious~ I pray the moods will level out sometime.
I guess we're all there with you, so don't feel alone.
Re: Need advice...lifting yourself back up? sosad05: As I reflect on yesterday, there was something that happened that I think put me in the depression. I thought I handled it well because on the surface I did. However, I think it got to me more than I let on.
Yesterday, was OWs bday. My daughter excitedly told me this (after she got off the phone with her dad)...and proceeded to "make" her a bday present. This ended up requiring my help...finding stickers in the house, tissue paper...etc. As I said, on the surface I handled it above and beyond well. Inside, I was dying. It didnt help that bf left for the weekend on a hunting expedition...so Im alone (with children). I pictured my daughter giving her the gift (my xh and her looking at each other thinking I'm psycho for helping my daughter). Truthfully, I could give a f*ck less that its her bday. But, I had an excited, thoughful little girl who needed my help.
But, today is a new day. I just got off of work. I am going to get some sleep. Hopefully, have sweet dreams and enjoy the day after I wake up.
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