Re: Rage td7629: I agree with broken_saint... take your time and really think about what you want before you do anything..
Re: Rage crushedman: Feel-
I was never married. Actually we had planned on getting engaged this month. I don't feel as if the X deserves to be with me, and she is not even saying that she wants to be with me (that's what's so funny about this situation). But I do feel that she loves me and misses me- she probably thinks that too much stuff has happened and it will be too difficult to fix. I know moving to Florida will be me giving up on that possibility, though.
And NW- well I am not sure. She says that she has thought about marrying me, falling in love with me, etc etc... really out there stuff for someone that I only know from work. I feel really comfortable around her which is a plus. She's gorgeous, plus. I don't mean to seem shallow but the lack of sexual chemistry is a huge minus in my book. I told her I would think about moving with her. But I don't have much more time to think (a few hours LOL).
cm
Re: Rage crushedman: broken and life-
What you are saying makes all the sense in the world. But it's not really possible in this case. First of all, she arranged for me to have a job if/when I get there which I will forfeit if I don't accept it. Secondly there is no way I can afford to go down there. I quit my job when the shit hit the fan (I'm going back to work Monday if I stay). Man I can't even pay my rent right now never mind go to Florida for the weekend! I guess we could try the long distance thing, but I doubt it would be possible in this situation- like I said she sprung this on me Wednesday night.
Messed up situation, huh?
cm
Re: Rage Feel: Crushed, you can't be with someone because you may think you can fall in love with them.... It is too soon to move in with the NW... I know through experience, I have a NM too and he is always around, to the point when he isn't I feel needy of him... grow on your own... see her, maybe do dinner, but how the hell can you move in with someone when you jsut told me you were going to propose to the you girlfriend and if that is the case... what does the girlfriend through in your face that she can't get passed?
The OW how long have you been with her to even think about moving in when you just said you were gonna propose?
Crushed, remember something, the NW I am assuming knows what you went through as well as friends and family, being that you are hurting, everything that everyone is saying to you will ahve an influence in how you think because you are trying to grasp at anything to help you feel better! Moving forward with a realtionship still feeling like you want your Ex, may hurt your new situation!
Re: Rage Life2.0: It may seem like a tough call but its so much pressure - I know... she's attractive, you have "chemistry" and there's that new job too. Having said that, If I had your freedom I would have moved elsewhere months ago. If you had nothing to loose than maybe; but it sounds like you have unfinished business with you ex, at least from what you’re telling us here.
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