Re: Rage Feel: Crushed,
Explain to me why you feel she deserves to be with you, as well tell me what this NW does for you...
Why is she calling and messing this up and have you been straight forward with NW about your feelings toward her, your wife and yourself...
Are you divorced yet are you moving to Florida or is it just a vacation?
Re: Rage crushedman: She doesn't know about the new girl. Hell I didn't know about the new girl until Wednesday night. It came out of the blue- and it's not a weekend we are talking about. She wants me to MOVE to florida with her. MOVE! lol I've worked with her for years and I thought in the back of my mind there might be something there but it was still a shock that someone would ask me that. I'm pissed at my X because her calling me is messing up my thoughts. I feel as if I don't know what's up from down and my mind is playing tricks on me. It's hard to think clearly and logically with all these feelings.
cm
Re: Rage CDNgurl: Why do you need to decide within a few hours? That is a lot of pressure.
Re: Rage broken_saint: cm,
if the NW cares enough for you to live her life with you then i would think she could understand that you may need a bit more time to get things sorted out back at home. handle your affairs first cm, this is part of taking care of you. picking up and leaving to another state with someone whose habits you're unfamiliar with may turn out to be a bit of a nightmare, or it just may not. i don't know the NW like you do. but i would take your time with this scenario. don't let it drive you crazy, you have time to make your choices and remember this is YOUR choice. don't let the "maybe's" sway you the wrong way or you might regret it. do what makes you happy.
Re: Rage Life2.0: Man! Come on! What's the rush to move - go for the weekend, hang out, check things out, etc. Make that huge decision when you get back after some careful evaluation.
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