Re: how perfect is this? crushedman: The thing with my sitch is that she didn't technically cheat. But she did start a new relationship 3 days after we broke up. I almost wish she cheated (not really though). I'm sure she is regretting it now. I don't know if I could ever trust her again- she would probably say that when I cheated on her she forgave me so I should do the same. But again, she is not even at the point of saying that she wants me back.
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Re: how perfect is this? Feel: Crushed, you need to look at it this way... 3 days after you split... ??? not sure of that hunny, you don't just walk meet someone and say oh, I just left a man of how many years and start something with another MAN, or Woman for that matter!
You cheated on her and she took you back... did you cause the split... is there something that was keeping her from trusting you totally?
Re: how perfect is this? crushedman: I broke up with her because I was sick of not getting a commitment... we were supposed to move in together but she changed her mind. It's a long story but her roommate has fooled around with her when we were apart and it made me uncomfortable that she was living there. She would say that I caused it because she didn't trust me but everything that I did that was wrong was months and months ago. I made my mistakes, Feel, trust me on that one. But I was trying so hard to make them right. (she made her mistakes, too.. she once cheated on me in the beginning of our relationship but it was a different situation) I know that I will never cheat again (on anyone not just her). I know I can be trusted- I've had honesty problems in the past but they are in the past.
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Re: how perfect is this? Feel: Crushed it seems like you guys are playing back and forth, who can hurt who more... Then anyway!
Well it seems as if she won!
You have no commitment to her... no children to fight harder for, nothing that ties you guys together!
Take this time and see people, if you can find money, go visit this woman for the weekend, or just hang with some family and friends!
Keep away from the x, even if she calls, it's not like you have a child she needs ask for or about!
