mind games?? tripny2k6: 4 weeks in, I was having one of the best days in a month yesterday, then I get a text last night asking if I made it to work yesterday and if I was ok.
WTF. Can anyone please give me some kind of idea as to why someone wants to split up with you but still has to send messages asking questions as if they still care???!!!!
I'm handling this alittle better as the day goes on, but its like it put me right back to square one. I start thinking about her again. Is that what she wants?? I sent her a text this morning asking her why she sent that, and asking her if she has any doubt about her decision to end this and she didnt reply. I"D LIKE TO SCREAM!!!!!
Re: mind games?? ezydriver: She was probably not taking it too well that you'd gone a month with no contact and probably wondered what you were up to. She probably wondered if you'd reply. You did and metioned this......
[quote"> and asking her if she has any doubt about her decision to end this[/quote"> This shows her you still care and are bothered by your breakup. She has got what she has wanted and that is probably why she hasn't replied. It'll fuck your head up mate. To snatch the power back ignore all her texts from now on. Trust me, I've been/I am there now.
Re: mind games?? Feel: Trip,
this makes me furious... but sometimes I use it against him and that is using the mind game as well! I do it back so he doesn't make me feel like shit...
He will send a text just like your did and I will reply either nothing at all or
"really, Y do u care how I feel, you didn't think about that when you were banging your friend so please don't bother to ask how I feel"
It still helps get my point accross but hurting him too so I don't feel so bad and wonder all day why he asked how I am doing or feel.
I know it's bad but it help with the hurt... not that 2 wrongs make a right either!
Re: mind games?? chaotic: [quote author=Feel link=topic=34049.msg353600#msg353600 date=1157123639">
Trip,
this makes me furious... but sometimes I use it against him and that is using the mind game as well! I do it back so he doesn't make me feel like shit...
He will send a text just like your did and I will reply either nothing at all or
"really, Y do u care how I feel, you didn't think about that when you were banging your friend so please don't bother to ask how I feel"
It still helps get my point accross but hurting him too so I don't feel so bad and wonder all day why he asked how I am doing or feel.
I know it's bad but it help with the hurt... not that 2 wrongs make a right either!
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Trip,
Next time she texts, dont reply at all. I think Driver is right, it is starting to bug her that you have not tried to contact her. All of a sudden, she realized her crash mat may not be there. Once she got a reply from you....She knows its there. If you feel you must reply. Just do so with a simple Yes or No.
Feel,
Replying in that way does nothing but let him know that he got under your skin. See, he does what he does to get attention. I dont think you are hurting him at all, just feeding his appetite for attention.
Re: mind games?? ezydriver: [quote"> All of a sudden, she realized her crash mat may not be there. Once she got a reply from you....She knows its there. [/quote"> yes yes yes
[quote"> I dont think you are hurting him at all, just feeding his appetite for attention.[/quote"> yes yes yes
Good wise words.
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