Re: mind games?? sheeps: Change your cell number. It's easy, painless, and good for you.
Re: mind games?? tripny2k6: So is she getting closure by hurting me more and more???
Re: mind games?? sheeps: [quote author=tripny2k6 link=topic=34049.msg353764#msg353764 date=1157129914">
So is she getting closure by hurting me more and more???
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You need to stop trying to analyze why she does what she does. You'll never understand it, so stop trying.
If you want to heal, you must take away her ability to hurt you in this manner. Do whatever it takes. Change your numbers and even your email addresses.
Re: mind games?? Feel: It's hard when you were hurt to stop analyzing, it's something you do to try and grasp on to survive the next minute.
I loved him so much and it kills me to know that he is trying to get me back and I won't go! So I am analyzing everything even when he trats me like shit!
Re: mind games?? 2be: Yes, it makes her feel better because it keeps her in control. Best if you don't respond at all... or if you wish to be nice about it. Just text or email her and say that any contact between you two is keeping you from healing so you're not going to respond. That's what I did... jeez... I was still seeing her every week with our group of friends. It was impossible for me to move on... getting that scab scraped off on a weekly basis.
Luckily, my X respected my space and only contacts me occasionally. I'm in a place now where I can speak with her (and even see her) without any emotion. Though I can see her hurt written all over her face, even 8-months out. But then again, she was the one that cheated on me and she's living with her guilt now.
Good luck and keep your chin up... it gets better. Just do what's good for YOU, not her.
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