Re: mind games?? momuv3: I just went through this yesterday. I think they send texts to sort of test the waters, see what you have been up to, see if you are moving on, happy? You can read my post from yesterday to see my situation. I didn't reply to the first text and he got angry and thought I was ignoring him. Yep I am. Don't take it as a sign of a change of heart, because it probably isn't. its just an attempt to keep you from moving on. When you replied with a question about him doubting his decision you gave him back all the power. Start over today. No more contact. IMO, if he wants you back he would be knocking on your door begging you to forgive him and asking for another chance...to which you would reply NO WAY!!! No, im kidding. I don't know your situation but it would take more than a text to prove that. Remember its all a game to keep you from moving on.
Re: mind games?? Feel: Yes you are right once again....
It's just taht it does hurt and he texts shit like that I want to yell and scream at him... so instead I reply back about what he did so he knows I didn't forget!
Re: mind games?? mariher: I think the whol idea of text messaging someone that broke your heart and you reply to them is such a waste of time. I would never text my ex because I know it'll bother him and he'll start to feel shitty again when he's probably having a good day. It's best to ignore them.
Re: mind games?? tripny2k6: We just got done texting about an hour ago. I cannot believe how heartless she acts. Its like this is not the person I fell in love with at all. It hurts so freakin bad. she puts me down so much it makes me feel like shit.
Re: mind games?? broken_saint: she will try to validate her feelings to you in her own way, you may not like the way she communicates it but realize one thing, she feels guilty and she'll handle it either by blaming you completely for the demize of the relationship or by getting her empowerment so that she can have her closure and get past the "guilt".
make no mistake trip, she ended the relationship ... she's being so unfair and thoughtless to your emotions. if she was thinking of you, she would've thought of your feelings too. you certainly do not deserve this no matter what. tomorrow's a new day bud. hang in there and do not contact her!
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