Re: I don't want to tell anyone katelyn: I used to have the same problem. Don't worry, people get used to it. LOL...
And people will roll their eyes, but oh well. You're going to have to shrug it off.
Re: I don't want to tell anyone trapped: Oh geez. After my ex and I split up and reconciled a few dozen times (not really but you get the point) I just stopped talking to people about it. I was the same way as you though, each time I really thought it was the last. This time I really think it is though..there was just too much at stake this time.
I am not a fan of trash talking though...you gotta share the good stories as well as the bad ones..I only really learned that after the first reconciliation.
Good luck, girl. I hope you guys make it this time. :)
Re: I don't want to tell anyone Feel: I need to be brutally honest with this one, family and friends play a big roll in our lives and yes of course their opinions matter because they play a huge part in our life...
"Why do we have to be like thousands of other people, who don't give it an honest try. I don't want to be part of the divorce ratio, why can't we just try, I know with the love we have for eachother and our son we can make this work. Look at our parents and grandparents, don't you think they had tough times too, and maybe they screwed around too, like for insitancelook at my unlce, he hurt his wife too and they stuck it out an d now look at them they are travellinga nd happier than ever. That can be us Lu lets just try.."
When I hear him talk like this I want to run back and jump into his arms, but it doesn't take away what happened and him sleeping with someone else! And that he is still banging the same one as he was then... so they obvilously have some type of chemistry and that is more painfull then anything!
But he forgot that with those words comes respecting me in the process... showing me that he is going to better himself ad work on his issues!
Yet I am with someone and trying to move on now and he still manages to find time to sware at me, tell me I am not the woman he thought that I should have stook by him through this tuff time and SHE (OW) did...
You see, no matter what our families and friends want what is best for us, they do to see the other side you don't see, but the one person you have to beleive in is yourself, and if you feel he is trying and will work to making a better life with you then they should trust your judgment and if it fails then the friends and family will be their for you!
But he needs to show consistancy. Not like my X who is jekle one day and hyde the next!
Re: I don't want to tell anyone icwtsmnl: Thanks guys. I think I'll stay quiet for a while and see how it plays out....
(why are things never just NORMAL??)
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