Re: my wife told me she does not love me. alonewith2: [quote author=crushedman link=topic=34057.msg356591#msg356591 date=1157501871">
Tell her if she doesn't want to be your wife then it's time to get the funk out. That's total BS.
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I agree. That's just wrong of her to expect that from you. You need distance, time, and space to get over her...duh!
Re: my wife told me she does not love me. asd.me: ARE YOU SURE IT IS OVER? DO YOU WANT IT TO BE OVER? I AM GOING THROUGH SOMETHING A LITTLE SIMILAR. MY HUSBAND ISN'T SURE WHAT HE WANTS THOUGH MOST DAYS IT ISN'T ME. I AM TRYING TO USE THIS TIME TO SHOW HIM BY ACTIONS THAT WE STILL HAVE A CHANCE.
I AM READING A REALLY GOOD BOOK CALLED THE DIVORCE REMEDY THAT GIVES TIPS AND APPROACHES TO GETTING A MARRIAGE BACK EVEN IF ONLY ONE PERSON IS TRYING. IT MAKES SENSE, AND I AM NOT A GULLIBLE PERSON, I AM A PSYCHIATRIC NURSE SO I KNOW IT ISN'T MUMBO JUMBO :P
PARTS OF THE BOOK ARE LIKE SHE IS IN MY HOUSE WRITING MY STORY. JUST SOME IDEAS. GOOD LUCK WITH WHATEVER YOU NEED FOR HER TO LEAVE OR STAY.
Re: my wife told me she does not love me. temptress: Try explaining to her what the role of a wife means and that if she wants the benefit of being a wife (living in your house) then she needs to act the role--love you, be supportive, work together as a team. But if she doesn't want to do those things, she doesn't get the perks of being your wife and needs to move out and support herself so that you can move on and eventually find some one that does want to be your wife. You're not running a hotel here.
Re: my wife told me she does not love me. Trish: Yeah as I said in another thread, mine said the same thing and I didn't even respond to it. I just went straight to the lawyer and filed. I didn't even go any further in asking his opinion on it. I freaked and didn't want the divorce but in the end, it was as it needed to be. I have friends, I don't need one that screwed me over.
You will not heal if she's there and it's not all about her is it? It seems she just wants this to end on her terms, in her time frame and how she wants the circumstance to be.
Whatever, do what you need to do. Unless of course your marriage can be saved and you want it. Then do what you need to do, to do that.
When somebody says they don't love you and they mean it? Why stay there or her stay there?
Re: my wife told me she does not love me. grendalkhan: [quote author=asd.me link=topic=34057.msg357514#msg357514 date=1157600675">
ARE YOU SURE IT IS OVER? DO YOU WANT IT TO BE OVER? I AM GOING THROUGH SOMETHING A LITTLE SIMILAR. MY HUSBAND ISN'T SURE WHAT HE WANTS THOUGH MOST DAYS IT ISN'T ME. I AM TRYING TO USE THIS TIME TO SHOW HIM BY ACTIONS THAT WE STILL HAVE A CHANCE.
I AM READING A REALLY GOOD BOOK CALLED [glow=red,2,300"> [font=Verdana"> THE DIVORCE REMEDY[/font"> [/glow"> THAT GIVES TIPS AND APPROACHES TO GETTING A MARRIAGE BACK EVEN IF ONLY ONE PERSON IS TRYING. IT MAKES SENSE, AND I AM NOT A GULLIBLE PERSON, I AM A PSYCHIATRIC NURSE SO I KNOW IT ISN'T MUMBO JUMBO :P
PARTS OF THE BOOK ARE LIKE SHE IS IN MY HOUSE WRITING MY STORY. JUST SOME IDEAS. GOOD LUCK WITH WHATEVER YOU NEED FOR HER TO LEAVE OR STAY.
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Where can I find this book?
