Re: Recently abandoned and hurting so much... Feel: being that you had a past as you did and I can only be so sorry for you, you know better tahn anyone that you deserve to be loved...
find comfort from a relgious stand point... see soemoen from your parish or find a family member if you ahve any for support and what about his mom>
He knows all this and the strugle you put up with and he walked away, do you really want to be with someone like that... CO -DEPENDANT, try and looka t it as a just a word... go see your doctor, theya re usually good at helping.
I am so sorry but stop calling him, if he was worried he would be by your side!
I know you do't want to hear it this way but I am not one to pussy foot around the situation, you need help and NOW!
Re: Recently abandoned and hurting so much... Feel: I am so sorry for you and I am so hurt for you... you deserve so much and need much help...
reserch on google... read up on some stuff to help you out... PM me when you can or need too!
Re: Recently abandoned and hurting so much... big_daddy: I'll simply echo the sentiments of the others that have responded as far as support and advice go...
But please, let me apologize on behalf of all of the good husbands, the good fathers, the good men on this board. I DO NOT understand how a MAN can do this to his family.
There seems to be this unfortunately large sect of the male human who find their own egos and lives more important than sharing their love and dreams with their wives and children.
Rest assured, we are not all that way. There are good men, good fathers, good husbands out there, who respect, cherish, and live their lives for their family first. You deserve one of those men, your children deserve one of those men. You don't deserve the coward that would walk out on everything that should be important to him without so much as a word.
Re: Recently abandoned and hurting so much... sheeps: [quote author=big_daddy link=topic=34062.msg354021#msg354021 date=1157136067">
But please, let me apologize on behalf of all of the good husbands, the good fathers, the good men on this board.
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Why on earth would you apologize for the "good" husbands and fathers?
Re: Recently abandoned and hurting so much... brielle123: I am very sorry about your traumatic past...I'm sure it has been very hard to deal with all of these years.
Feel is right, you do need to go and get some help - NOW - for yourself and fast...have you looked into counseling?
If anyone understands co-dependency, it is me. I am soooooo co-dependent, I absolutely hate that about myself...that is why splitting with my STBXH has been so unbelievably hard for me. So I sought help and found a counselor to talk to...everyday I feel a little more independent, even though I miss my partner so terribly and sometimes feel like digging an little hole and crawling inside forever. I do understand that you feel so scared and alone...you will get through this, no matter what happens...you will get through it.
We are a lot stronger than we give ourselves credit for, which I know is hard to believe right now and it is still really hard for me to believe as well, but we are...you are going to be ok, and just know you are not alone...this website is the best ever and we will help you cope....take care...
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