Are you ready for this? alonewith2: I haven't vented in awhile, and I've sort of just been letting it all build up. Now I'm ready to explode! So, pardon me if it doesn't all quite make sense, but I just have to get it all out of my mind...
First of all, the stbx writes this dumbass blog about people meaning what they say, and saying what they mean...and following through on that. So of course, I had to comment on that one...yes, I know, shouldn't have been reading his blog to begin with....punish me. :P He didn't like what I had to say, so he deleted his account. Too freaking funny! Oh well. I guess I shouldn't have messed with that avenue of his to pick up chicks and cheat on his gf, but I'm only human... ;) But before he deleted his account, I did notice that he FINALLY got around to changing his status from married to in a relationship...
Second, the fact that my mom still allowed the stbx and his band to practice in her barn really upset me....but not as much as seeing his gf go there with him. Why the hell would he bring his gf to my mom's house? My mom told me that he brought the other gf there today. My mom was watching my kids until I got home from work, and the gf made this huge display of trying to get my daughter to go hang out with her. My mom's really lucky that she told the gf that R was not allowed in there when the guys were practicing....but I still don't like the idea that my mom allowed the gf to hang out in her yard and play with R the whole time they guys were practicing.
I told her that I had a hard enough time with her allowing my stbx to still use her barn to practice in, but the idea of the gf going to my mom's REALLY PISSED me off!!! I don't go to his mom's house with a SO and hang out. My mom's should be a safety zone of sorts for me to go and not have to worry about seeing them. RIGHT?!!! So when he came to pick up R a few minutes ago, my mom told him that they weren't allowed to have girls there because of insurance reasons or something like that. Atleast she told him, but I would have felt better if she just told him that it was FREAKING RUDE to bring his gf there and that he should be lucky that he's still allowed to practice there.
Finally, I had to remind both dad's that Monday was thier holiday, and then find out if they were just keeping the kids until Monday at 6 pm or if they were dropping them off Sunday at 6pm just to turn around and pick them back up at 10am the next morning. My son's dad was perfectly fine with just keeping P until Monday night....but could my stbx do the same?!!! Hell no! He's got to pull some little "Monday's not a holiday" BS with me. Then insist that he had to work Sunday night....more than likely because he had plans to party....so who knows if he's even going to take R on Monday or not. He's supposed to call me tonight when he "finds out from someone at work if they have to go in Sunday or not..." AKA if it's okay with his gf to not go to some big party....
UGH!!!!!!!!!
I need a vacation from reality again!!! >:(
Re: Are you ready for this? td7629: Wow.. How do you keep your cool.. I don't know how I would act if my ex brought the OW to my mom's house.. LOL.. Did you explain to your mom that this upsets you?
Re: Are you ready for this? alonewith2: Yes, I did explain all of it to her. She still doesn't understand why I would care that he goes there. My family still thinks of him as family. In a way, he still is. He's my daughter's father. I'm glad that they don't make things difficult for us to have a somewhat workable relationship....but she agreed with the gf going there part. So for that I'm thankful. ;)
Re: Are you ready for this? yella: Well, thankfully your mom saw what was wrong with that picture. ::)
Your stbx is an ass. No question. I would have blown up a long time ago!
Re: Are you ready for this? td7629: I totally understand what you are saying.. my family absolutely despises my ex...I think to myself what is going to happen when there are important events that happen and both families need to be there.. it is going to be really awkward.. so in a way.. i kind of understand where your mom is coming from.. by trying to make things peaceful.. but it was absolutely wrong for him to bring the OW..
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