How can two people getting divorced have such great sex? Wherezmygun: Ok so tonight I dont know what happened. I was over at the STBXW house helping with getting everything ready for my sons birthday party 2marrow. we were getting along great, seemed like old times. she got home from work, we talked, just about her day at work, my day with the boys you know normal stuff.. she even huged me and i almost made her pee herself by tickleing her. well we decided that i should spend the night so that i can be here in the morning to start getting everything ready for the party.
I dont even know how it started, but as soon as we were upstairs things just clicked and we were kissing and huging. then you know the rest. it was amazeing like it was when we 1st met. i dont know what got into her tonight but it was like she was in love with me.
When we were done and just laying there in our bed i tryed to hold her ad she told me not to get weird on her just because we had made love. Ouch! i dont know what to think. I love this woman so much and what happened tonight was so awsome, it felt so right, but i dont know if she did it just to make up for what she has done and is doing to our family of if she truely wanted me but cant let herself enjoy it after the fact.
So now here i am down stairs talking to yall and shes up in bed sleeping. Im not tired because...well because im never tired and im used to being up at this time. anyone got any insite on this?
hope in mot out of line posting this here but i wanted to talk about it. anyone else have the same thing happen with the and the Ex/STBX?
Re: How can two people getting divorced have such great sex? jannette Garcia: Well I dont want to give you false hope...BUT same thing happened to me...and we're on the road to reconciling...so you never know....like I said dont get your hopes up...but dont beat yourself up for sleeping with her...she is your wife. Give her time and try not to beg her or put pressure on her. Just give it time...I know people keep telling you this...but give it time....it does wonders. I kicked my boyfriend (we never got married, but have a child together) out about 3 months ago....and like a month after he realized what he lost and has been trying to fix it ever since. I didnt beg him, I didnt call him, I just had contact with him when he wanted to see our daughter. Other than that he came back on his own and now wants to get married and get engaged and so on...so who knows....just have patience and focus on you. I did so, I got back in shape, started doing things for me and eventually he came around...but if he didnt I was ready for that as well. Anyways good luck to you....take care
Re: How can two people getting divorced have such great sex? Life2.0: The last thing is want to be cruel with you but imo she just used you. Take this with a grain of salt - I don't know your case and circumstances but that is my first take on things after reading your post. I may be wrong but just a feeling based on hard earned experience.
Best of luck
Re: How can two people getting divorced have such great sex? vdc_1975: I was told by my best friend that once my wife and I split, we would end up getting together at least once to have sex. She says it "always" happens. I told her no way, not my wife's style or personality. When I told her I wanted a divorce, after all the fighting, we managed to have a decent conversation about our financial and family matters to divide things up. The last thing she said was, OK one more big thing, until you move out, I still want sex. It blew me away. It has always been good, but it was really great for 2 of the last 3 months. I thought it was a bad idea, I was right. It just complicates things and makes it worse in the long run.
Re: How can two people getting divorced have such great sex? Lance: It sure must be nice. My wife moved back in after a 6 month seperation, in which time she lived with the OM. She asked me to take her back. I gave up the chance to start something with a high school sweetheart to work things out with my wife. Since she has been back we have still not had sex.
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