Re: The Silly Decisions You Make... smokin: handing tissues
dude, we are all broken up, in our own extent here....... everyone deals with it a different way.
but by posting like this, reaching out for attention, it just makes people avoid it even more... when you post, post like you dont care who reads it, post like you could care less if it has 1 read, 1 response, and dont worry.........
people who go through life " "> http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=needs+a+little+lemon"> " friends or something to fufill them inside, which someone else has, isnt getting anyone far..........
just post like noone is watching. try to get some funny stuff up, and loosen up. when people are mad at the world, it doesnt help.........
good luck
Re: The Silly Decisions You Make... trapped: [quote author=Batman link=topic=34094.msg354846#msg354846 date=1157279233">
secondly, why get angry about random posts? i wish my problems in life were so small that i could complain about the drivel that gets posted on the internet.
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It was so long for me, weeks and weeks~~what felt like an eternity, before I had a deep laugh after S abruptly walked out on me. When I finally did laugh it was because of something here on one of the silly mindless threads. Sorry you are hurting and/or dont feel heard but I think that all threads are created equal here, whether they are silly drivel or intensely serious. Well, most threads at least...... ;)
Re: The Silly Decisions You Make... superwife: [quote author=Tarheel link=topic=34094.msg354812#msg354812 date=1157255080">
But I think I will stick to posting nonsense from here on in. Wasting an hour of my night typing and searching for links doesn't quite seem worth it when I can post absolute crap like this or this and get more responses, like I did here .
On second thought, no, I will keep on bringing my brilliance to the board. Unfortunately, I can't rattle off great posts like the ones above at the rate of those CLASSIC posts of like seven words to START a thread. But maybe if I can perhaps churn out one a day, it will someday pay off.
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Hey Tar, I enjoyed your trip down memory lane. It sounded so romantic. I usually like romantic stories (when i know they have happy endings :-\)
Anyway, i know what you mean about these type of posts. I've stayed away from the top of the boards lately. I only venture up there when I have to. But if your posting up here helps you in any way, that's cool. You spent an awfully long time telling your story, I hope it did help.
I, on the other hand, am not ready to share that story (the meeting of my ex) here.
Re: The Silly Decisions You Make... Fjord Girl: Your posts always blow me away, Tar. This is a story with a happy beginning and a bad ending, but you got something great in the middle: your little one. I think that's the part I appreciated the most about this.
And what can I tell you that I haven't told you already? There comes a time when you have to stop asking why things happen the way they do. What if's don't help and you just have to learn to live with it.
And calling it "silly decisions"... I don't know. Life has a weird way to teach us things and whatever it is you have to learn, it probably wasn't fun, but you will love the lesson when things turn into something better.
My only wish for you is that you find someone to write a wonderful new story with. I'm sure you will, you're a great guy. Just be patient... Very patient.
Re: The Silly Decisions You Make... Mooneyes: I too love your posts Tarheel. I am amazed by your writing and your strength. It is amazing how life changes in a blink of an eye. The man I married stumbled upon me, because he went somewhere on a dare received on a drunken night with a friend.
It is strange how little things change ones life. But then I am always thinking about fate or intent, or divine intervention. Fortune's wheel goes round I suppose.
Thank you for your story.
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