This divorce needs to be on Jerry Springer... Scott: Long story short.........
ex says she never loved me wants a divorce (7 yrs married 1 son) she leaves, I cry and beg (didn't work apparently :o), she gets pregnant, has a miscarriage, decides her boyfriend is a loser, wants to get back together......I try (she doesn't), she finds a new boyfriend......she stays at her new bf's house with my son (after only a few weeks of dating), I flip out (continually for about 3 months), she decides that he is a total loser and really wants to try and work this out (go to counseling and everything....total commitment)....we do the counseling thing for 3 weeks....then guess what happens ??? ???.....she tells me that she is pregnant again ;D(sorry it's just funny to me anymore) not by me but by the loser she was with.......all of this in approx 11 months!!!!!!!!can you guys believe that crap.....there is sooooo much drama that she has produced....this was all just the end result.....now last weekend I kept my son all weekend (I have him every other day 50/50) because she was "spotting".....now I don't even know if she is still carrying or not.....do I ask her or just wait until the tummy grows.....I don't mourn anymore over it, I have come to realize that once someone tears your heart up as much as she did that it eventually doesn't go back together (hope that makes sense).....hope everyone is having a good day
Re: This divorce needs to be on Jerry Springer... PennyLane: Yep Scott, you definitely have a Jerry, Montel, Maurey show going on here.
My first thought at reading your post is to be a great dad to your son and let this woman go on with her boyfriends. She's only keeping you on a back burner only wanting you back until she can find someone else. At this point if you did stay with her, I'd pray that you don't get her pregnant. That would be the last thing you need.
She's a very unstable person to go from bf to bf that quick and to top it off, get pregnant by them both. OMG Red flag. Let this one go. She sounds a little needy.
Focus on reclaiming your own life for YOU and your little boy. You deserve a more stable relationship with 'someone' (don't we all)lol
Good luck, I wish you much strength to pull through this one.
Please keep yourself and your son first in your life. She's using you by continuing to "want to work on things when the going gets tough in her other affairs"
You have a great support group here......
Re: This divorce needs to be on Jerry Springer... mariher: She should be "the mother of your son" and that's where it ends.
Honestly, that is very Jerry springer. You should not have to deal with having the role of savior to her. How is that fair to you? How about what you need and want?
I think she's totally self destructive (getting pregnant by all the different bf's) and that's not good for you or your son. Spend as much time as you can with your little boy and forget about trying to be a life support for her. Your son needs you more than she does.
Re: This divorce needs to be on Jerry Springer... td7629: Scott.. There are many of us going thru this same nightmare too, including myself.. You wonder how someone that you loved could do all the awful things that they have done as if it is no big deal.. Hang in there.. It does start to get better but it takes time. You are doing the right thing by keeping your son away from the mess that she is creating. Keep posting on here, it does help.
Re: This divorce needs to be on Jerry Springer... newts: Wow,
You are a brave man!
One word of advice I have for you is if she ever comes back again tell her no way!
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