never normal icwtsmnl: why can't i be one of those people who meets someone, falls in love, and gets married? why must i be the one who has to constantly question, "am i doing the right thing?". is it just my own weakness/fault that i can't make a damn decision on my own? i just want to feel comfortable and stable and sure for once. i can't even appreciate the good moments fully because i'm stuck questioning myself and him, and expecting the worst. sucks.
Re: never normal JNA: This happens for three reasons...
IMO
IC wrote: "why can't i be one of those people who meets someone, falls in love, and gets married?"
Because some of us are "Freak" Magnets...
We totally attract the wrong people...Type...Whatever and "fall" for them
IC wrote: "why must i be the one who has to constantly question, "am i doing the right thing?"."
Because you have been burned in the past and can't get past it...
I think you will find a lot of us here
On MySpace I have been asked out by numerous women over the last week...
I question whether I want to go out with them
Make sense...
IC wrote: "i can't even appreciate the good moments fully because i'm stuck questioning myself and him, and expecting the worst. sucks."
Yup...
BTDT and have the shirt to prove it
You question you because you cannot trust your "decisions"
You question him because you cannot trust him...Period...
These people in our past really affected us ya know
And not in a Positive way...
But the thing you have to do (and I struggle with this at times)
You have to "give" a person Trust until they prove you wrong...
This may hurt you as many will
But I guess the point I'm trying to drive home is this...
No one person is like another
No one is the same...
So as Bad as it is you just have to put yourself out there...Be careful and wish for the best
That the person you are opening up to will not "Rip" your heart out like so many of us here have had done...
If you never open up
You will never know...
If you do
You may be hurt...
There in lies the Rub
Stay Strong
JNA
