He is driving me insane literally faraday: So, he says that he talked to lawyer and he is required to give much less so I asked what he was willing to give and he explodes and he screams he hates me and then he calls her and he is bitching to her about me and how I want to take away our daughter, which I don't , and how i want all his money, which I don't and how he feels sorry for the next man in my life- which I won't have- he is making me crazy and enjoying ittt! I can't take this much longer- help!
Re: He is driving me insane literally brielle123: I am so sorry far. He know it hurts, but he is acting like a complete a$$hole. He wants this, not you and he has financial responsibility WHETHER HE LIKES IT OR NOT to you and your daughter. I know that doesn't help ease the pain you are feeling, but know that you deserve so much more than what he is doing to you.
To call the OW right in front of you and talk badly about you right in front of you is a complete lack of respect and just plain cruel. You need to go to a lawyer yourself and find out what you need to do to protect yourself from him and his antics. At this point it is hard to say what he is capable of doing.
I know that it is easier said than done, but you have got to get this man out of your life. I realize that you will still have to deal with ya'lls daughter and visitation and such, but he is so unhealthy for you and I really think that you will be able to see the light at the end of the tunnel if you can just get away from him and not have to see him everyday. I know that is what helping me - the no contact rule is really really hard, but just know that it is for the best and it is your best bet in beginning the healing process.
I am so so sorry that this is happening to you. You did nothing to deserve this type of treatment and I just wish that you could see that. He brings you down more and more, and I hate to say it but you need to give up hope with him and think about yourself and your daughter foremost. I wish you luck and if you need to talk, please PM me...we are here for you. Again, I am so sorry and I really feel for you through all of this....
Re: He is driving me insane literally brielle123: [quote author=brielle123 link=topic=34516.msg360064#msg360064 date=1158018516">
He know it hurts,
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I meant to say "I" - not HE, sorry :)
Re: He is driving me insane literally crushedman: Please don't back down on the money issue. Speak softly, be calm-- but be firm. I don't mean to be a master of the obvious here, but the simple answer for him is that if he doesn't want to have to pay then he can work it out with you. It's really that simple.
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Re: He is driving me insane literally Feel: Far,
I knew this was gonna happen... he is trying to scare you off and make it look as if you want everything, when really there isn't much to take.
Mine is doing the smae thing, aren't his parents saying anything...
I am telling you now... get a lawyer, protect yourself, he is the one with the house, he will kick you out and keep your daughter, then you will ahve to fight 2x as hard to get her back...
Even if you have to get all the documentation off the internet, print it, fill it out an dgo see a lawyer to help you with the rest, try legal aid, get help from a doctor.
Far, I am telling you this because I know... I will post my story about what happened today!
I am so sorry PM me if you need to, heck I'll even call you if you want!
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