What do I do? Feel: All weekend was a battle, it was his day on Saturday and it was my son't first ever soccer tournament... his time is 11.00am and I was already at the field, lucky for him my son's team started late cause of rain delay... he showed up at 11.40am and the game was to be at 10.40am which I was told by him and it was confimed to us on a previous game night!
Anyway he nagged me all day while there and thru his comments.
That night we had a mass at church to go to cause my son was in a choir for his daycare (he's 3) and I asked him to come didn't show.
Next day he had another game at 10.40am again, he didn't show until 11.45am and the game was over 5 minutes after he showed... he blamed me, even had the balls to say I didn't call him... not to menetion blamed me for calling him garbage (WHICH I DID NOT), I asked him to throw something out and he asked if I had anything else(this happened the day before at his second game) and I laughed and he pointed at himself and I smiled!
Anyway he smelled of boose and I knew he was out... If the game only started at the usual time I would have left and he would have gone and found no one there!
He was all over me and asking if I would just try again and started with his bullshit again that I never tried, he was even being a little frisky for my liking and I tld him to not touch me or even hold try touching my hand... at one point he smaked me on the butt... and I pushed him away! Everyone was there he was such a shit..
Today I got a call from a credit agency about still owing money to a gas bill from the house we owned... by the time I left I had missed one payment.. i couldn't do it anymore on my own plus I had a first and last months rent to pay for where I am now... then I started paying it slowly along with the hydo and phone bill, paid the last water bill and anything else that was pending... The gas bill was about 400.00 and I had paid down to 200.00, I asked him today to help me with it or if we can have the realestate laywer make a check out and he said that all I am about is money!
I was thinking I'd pay it but then I thought why should I it's partly his responsibility too, also I forgot to mention he missed the last 3 mortgage payments of the house cause he knew we were selling it and that the money we got would pay pay the bank the diffrence meanwhile I was still keeping up with the bills.
He still owes me last years child support plus anything else that my lawyer is fighting for for me but yet he won;t help with a bill, when just yesterday he wants to try again, he loves me, I am beautiful and all the other shit...
I need a set of brass nuckles, anyone???????????????????
Re: What do I do? doctorjoel: He sounds very selfish and abusive. I'm sorry you have to put up with it.
