Re: UPDATE WITH WIFE AND I FROM THIS WEEKEND! brielle123: Like everyone else said already, I am so sorry that this is happening to you. You do not deserve this, but I think that you know that already.
You have been through so much with her and you were just being you when you were there for her this past weekend. Do not feel bad about that, you did not know how to be any other way.
That false glimmer of hope is the worst feeling, but I understand why you felt that way. She did make you feel as if she may want to come back to you after all this, and I know how it feels to have that hopeful light blown out.
You had already somewhat suspected that this might happen and the confirmation of it is the worst part of it all. You might not have seen it, but you have come so far in this journey of trying to move on with life. All I can say is that it WILL get better, you are a great person...you can only move forward from here, the relapse hurts, but you will be ok again.
I know it hurts, but if she can't see you for who you are and what you can give her in your relationship, then she does not deserve you. I know it is easier said than done, but you will move on and things will get better.
It's ok to start back at rock bottom again because the only way that you can move is up, and you will, you just have to believe in that.
I know my words probably don't help you right now, but it is just such a sad situation and just know that I really feel for you and understand your pain...as already know, we have all been there....take care and good luck :)
Re: UPDATE WITH WIFE AND I FROM THIS WEEKEND! newts: I am so sorry Inked.
Just remember you are a very good man for what you have done for your ex and the lucky woman that you are devoted to next will appreciate all that you do.
You have done a beautiful thing and you will be rewarded in some way down the line.
Re: UPDATE WITH WIFE AND I FROM THIS WEEKEND! Wherezmygun: FLY- Hugs back to ya thanks
Superchick- I guess that is a brite side if there is any in this situation. I'll try not to stay at square one 2 long
CM- Im right there with you amn,i have not a clue on how she could sit there for 6 years and keep a lir going that long. Not even try and love me. I poered my heart and soul into this marrige, gave her all i had and more. wish thisng worked out anoter way.
Mel- yes i wanted to reconnect with her so much, dont understad why she cant see in me what everyone else does, im not purfect but i damn sure try to be and I love with all my heart only to end up on the short end again. Hugs back at ya hun your a good friend.
Brielle- thanks alot for your words your right in that i cant help but be the way i am, i have thought about changeing and not being such a careing loveing person but i dont see how i can do that to myself and the people who love me. yes the false glimmer of hope did hirt but i think it might help in the long run whos knows right...
Newts- I hope so i look forward to the day i get mine thanks for posting
Re: UPDATE WITH WIFE AND I FROM THIS WEEKEND! faraday: Ink,
I am so sorry hon- I know all too well how you are feeling right now- but you are a good guy and one day you will have someone that will appreciate it and love you for it.
Re: UPDATE WITH WIFE AND I FROM THIS WEEKEND! Peaceandquiet: Sorry bro..... wish it had worked out better for you... :(
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