Re: she's jealous superwife: Okay...but is she under the impression that you are somehow still doing this?? I'm pretty sure that you are not, but perhaps she is under some impression that you are.
I was in a similar situation with a bf. I felt like I would never be priority over his ex. And it was tough for me to stomach how he would bend over backwards for her. And his standard reply was always, "I do it for our son". He would tell me how much I meant to him, but he was still treating his ex as if they were still married. The best was when he had his drivers license suspended (unbenounced to him) b/c she had unpaid parking tickets. I said "what does this have to do with you?" His reply: the car is still registered and insured to him ::). So she had all the benefits of a husband, but could screw whomever she pleased. There's more, but I gotta go teach a class now...
Re: she's jealous JNA: [quote author=Deadfish link=topic=34532.msg360219#msg360219 date=1158065791">
Hmmm, my girlfriend told me that she's jealous of my ex wife. She was talking about the fact that I'd dedicate my life to someone meant that I really loved them, sorta thing. I'm not a girl so I don't know how you think. But I can kinda understand, so in any case, I told her that she has no reason to be jealous. I dunno what to say or do...
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It's a "Test"...
Women will test you
So tell her...
Well I'm with you and not her
So you think what you want...
She will back down then
IMO
JNA
Then prepare for the next one...
;D
Re: she's jealous cuddlebare: are you seeing both of them.
be careful if a woman is asking priority, over any of your wishes or if a woman is asking for attention more than you give naturly, the man must set the pase or the woman will feel insacure.
JNA is on themoney here people.
thats what I did wrong with my wife, tried too hard with equal and modren and she was always looking for what was missing, turns out she wanted the safeness of knowing someone was deciding things for her but always tried to find peace in things, in fixing me.
make it clear to girlfriend that she is on a schedule, your schedule, the man sets the plans and the woman must trust.
Re: she's jealous superwife: [quote author=cuddlebare link=topic=34532.msg361940#msg361940 date=1158233081">
make it clear to girlfriend that she is on a schedule, your schedule, the man sets the plans and the woman must trust.
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Re: she's jealous Deadfish: Be assertive, gotcha.
We've been dating for about a month now. She says that she's jealous of my ex, since I shared myself with someone before her, and I told her what JNA said, that I'm with HER now, and that did reassure her indeed. But still, I think she still worries about it... I showed her a pic of my ex today (she wanted to see), and it was funny, she said that she's much prettier than my ex! LOL
It's all good, I'll just go with the flow and see how things turn out :)
Thanks for the advice guys!
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