Re: Angry Again abandoned1: I haven't talked to an attorney yet - although I know I really need to. I've read a lot though, and it seems as if I just have to wait. I'm gonna see an attorney soon though - I promise myself that.
Re: Angry Again gabefredrick: While I wasn't married to her my ex did the same thing and followed the same patterns as yours. I am partially to blame because I started seeing her before she left the guy before me. I told myself that I was different, that this time it was love, and that she wouldn't do that to me... people don't change.
Trust me when I say, she doesn't love this guy. She's filling a bottomless hole with just another person. One day, maybe not tomorrow or next year, but one day her path will catch up with her and the pain you feel now will be nothing compared to the emptiness she will feel. While that type of vengeful feeling might not be healthy, its the way the universe works. You've chosen to feel loss instead of simply replacing it with the next closest something/someone and you will grow stronger for it. Someone will recognize that in you and it will make all of this seem like a distant bad dream.
Be well
Re: Angry Again abandoned1: gabefredrick, thanks for your input. Sorry you had to go through the same thing too - but I think we're both the better for it. You're right, it will catch up with her - and him too by-the-way, he will get his too, as he knew she was a married woman. One day, if he ever gets married, it will probably happen to him too. That would be poetic justice. I will probably never know their outcome - but I'll keep my faith in the karma of life.
gabefredrick, you too be well - and thanks again for your support.
Best,
Abandoned1
Re: Angry Again shpek: abandoned1,
sorry to hear man. anytime you want to talk feel free to PM!!!
hang in there.
Re: Angry Again abandoned1: Thanks Shpek! I'm doing better today. Tomorrow who knows?
