Re: You can't go back.... hr: Sounds like that was a tough choice you had to make. You will be stronger in the long run. She is the mother of your boys. She holds a special place to you. Atleast now you know you did everything you could. Love does strange things to people. We learn to grow from all the pain and end up in better places. We even learn how to forgive somewhere in there to. In my own life I have realized that I will always have a special place for my husband, but I realized that I can't love him like I did before. Thanks for the post. It sheds light on other peoples situations.
Re: You can't go back.... confused101: Thanks guys. I've been guilty of having the "perfect family" perception.
Lately I've come to realize that everything I was taught when I was growing up about the nuclear family was a bunch of crap. Kinda like finding out Santa Clause isn't real, but much more stressing lol.
I've moved on and it feels good to know the door is shut, and my perceptions have been resolved.
lol BD....much love:)
Re: You can't go back.... Feel: i KNEW ALL ALONG YOU HAD SOMETHING BOTHERING YOU, AND i KNOW NOW WHAT IT IS...
I see through you jokes and pictures that you want to say things sometimes but use wize crakes so you don't have to think of what is bothering you!
I am happy with what you posted and totally understand wht you are feeling cause I feel like she does as I feel like you do to...
With time we have to build on what we now have and leave the past where it is! :-*
Re: You can't go back.... big_daddy: [quote author=Rainking link=topic=34541.msg360448#msg360448 date=1158079486">
I've moved on and it feels good to know the door is shut, and my perceptions have been resolved.
lol BD....much love:)
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Sorry bro, but I just couldn't resist. :)
Its good that you have definitive conclusions, its far easier to move on when you aren't wondering what you might have left behind.
Re: You can't go back.... tygerseye04: I think it's good that you didn't go back...it doesn't sound like she knows what she wants, and that's simply not good enough for you.
I think it's rare when people get a chance to do it twice. You just have to trust in providence that what's meant to be is meant to be.
But it certainly helps to know that you gave it your all. I gave it my all with my ex--I still wish I could've given more--but I definitely gave all that I had to give.
Anyway. Good move on your part.
d.
