Do they all come back one day? brielle123: OK, I am kinda just throwing this question out here...not because I think that my STBXH is ever going to reconcile with me, nor at this point do I want him to...I am just curious.
Say you are the one that got left by your significant other. You wanted to try and work on things, regardless if there was OM or OW, didn't want it to end, etc., etc. And your partner leaves you anyway. You go through the whole grief process and eventually get over it. Once you start moving on how many of you have had your EX come back and want to reconcile?
It has happened to me with my STBXH before, and really every other boyfriend I have ever had. Just about every one of my friends has had an EX reconciliation as well, when they were the ones that got left behind. Just wanted to get everyone elses outlook on it.
Re: Do they all come back one day? chaotic: [quote author=brielle123 link=topic=34542.msg360442#msg360442 date=1158078980">
OK, I am kinda just throwing this question out here...not because I think that my STBXH is ever going to reconcile with me, nor at this point do I want him to...I am just curious.
Say you are the one that got left by your significant other. You wanted to try and work on things, regardless if there was OM or OW, didn't want it to end, etc., etc. And your partner leaves you anyway. You go through the whole grief process and eventually get over it. Once you start moving on how many of you have had your EX come back and want to reconcile?
It has happened to me with my STBXH before, and really every other boyfriend I have ever had. Just about every one of my friends has had an EX reconciliation as well, when they were the ones that got left behind. Just wanted to get everyone elses outlook on it.
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I hope my XW tries to come back some day, just so I can say NO.
However, I would take climber girl back if she tried. Strange we have only dated for a couple months now so I dont even think she was a "girl friend". Just something about her I cant explain.
Re: Do they all come back one day? hr: My husband comes back every single time I get myself in order. I guess I am more attractive when I start to be happy again and learning to live again. It usually don't take him long to strip the happiness right out of me and make me the passive I will do anything for you person that I don't even like. In my case I think my husband is attracted to people he can control. I owe him this time because I don't want to be that person anymore. I am strong on my own, but passive with him. No good. I think some people come back because they never took the time to do the process. They moved from one bed to the next and never worked on themselves.
Re: Do they all come back one day? darkrose: [quote author=chaotic link=topic=34542.msg360445#msg360445 date=1158079222">
I hope my XW tries to come back some day, just so I can say NO.
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I have no doubt in my mind that my stbxw will try to come back to me when she gets a taste of what the real world is like...and that is exactly what my answer is going to be..NO.
Re: Do they all come back one day? tripny2k6: I think that my ex will attempt to come back some day too. Its unfortunate that my family cannot stand her right now, and I already know her family hates me. Unfortunately thats what came between us. I dont know what I would do if she called me right now. I know I miss her terribly, but after all she has doen to me, I dont think I could ever be comfortable in our relationship again.
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