Re: Do they all come back one day? ezydriver: deleted for good reason
Re: Do they all come back one day? broken_saint: my ex hasn't said a word since she dropped the bomb on me. you would think after nine years of knowing and sharing everything with someone so well that the last thing you would ever expect from them is to burn the bridge with you.
note to all new grievers:
it's a shitty thing, as you know, but from this experience you must understand that you shouldn't blame yourself or feel guilty in the least bit for thier actions. in time you will agree.
i don't think my ex will ever try to connect again with me. she's still with the guy she left me for. additionally, i never had an ex that tried. it's not me and i know that for sure. i'm not an alchoholic with issues, i never laid a hand on anyone. i never hurt a fly and i simply refuse to kill insects. i have such a respect for people, i love my pets and i am concidered a rock for alot of people who are actually going through the same thing.
is it me? absolutely not. is it them? damn right it is.
i dont know if i should be glad tho.
Re: Do they all come back one day? Feel: [quote author=brielle123 link=topic=34542.msg360442#msg360442 date=1158078980">
OK, I am kinda just throwing this question out here...not because I think that my STBXH is ever going to reconcile with me, nor at this point do I want him to...I am just curious.
Say you are the one that got left by your significant other. You wanted to try and work on things, regardless if there was OM or OW, didn't want it to end, etc., etc. And your partner leaves you anyway. You go through the whole grief process and eventually get over it. Once you start moving on how many of you have had your EX come back and want to reconcile?
It has happened to me with my STBXH before, and really every other boyfriend I have ever had. Just about every one of my friends has had an EX reconciliation as well, when they were the ones that got left behind. Just wanted to get everyone elses outlook on it.
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I believe they all want to and some just have to much pride to say it...
I know mine wants more than his share!
Re: Do they all come back one day? masterlow: I'm not sure if my Ex will ever come back. For now, I violated No Contact too much to expect her to want me back anytime soon.
She is also a very proud woman. Even if she wanted too, she may be too stubbort to try.
One thing is that she did date a guy long ago, split up with him for a year, only to get back together. I try not to let this get my hopes up, though.
She told me that reconciliation was a possibility for us. Her exact words were "Maybe we will run into each other at some bar, and it will be like a moth to a flame".
Re: Do they all come back one day? superwife: Almost 18 months, no sign of ever wanting to come back. That's more than fine with me.
Only once did I ever have someone want me back. And that was my post-marriage bf of 8 months. I initiated the break-up, he was in agreement, then he admitted he still 'had feelings' for me. I do not want him back. I am still in contact w/ him, but I hesitate to see him, b/c i don't truly know how he feels at this point.
There is one person I would give another chance to, kinf of like chaotic's climber-girl. Not sure why, but there was something about him that I really liked. And it did not progress far enough for us me to really make that decision (he ended it). Other than that, I don't want any of them back, romantically speaking.
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