It's so hard to do it on my own... Feel: My Ex as we all know is a total jerk...
He can't honestly beleive that I am going to give in to his lies, if anything I know them better than anyone else.
After we sold the house there were outstanding utility bills along with other things I had to pay...
He doesn't want to help adn when I asked to come with me to sign out some money from the trust that I refuse to give him, he said NO!
Is it now both ower responsibility?
Does he not realize that it's in both our names, and we will both be liable for it?
Our names are going to go to credit agency's?
He didn't pay the last 3 mortgage paments but I was doing my best to keep up with the bills on top of everything else, is this fair?
I am going nuts here, who does he think he is... I need help, what do I do?
Re: It's so hard to do it on my own... sosad05: Feel...NO!! It isnt fair. It sucks. I went through an awful situation similar to yours too and YES he did get away with it. He stayed in the house and didnt make any house payments. That ate up all of the equity. He sold all of our marital property worth anything (motorcycle, jet ski) and pocketed the cash. Ultimately, there was nothing I could do because I just wanted to settle so badly and be done with it. Yes, my credit was completely destroyed. I had no choice but to file bankruptcy.
But, you get back on your feet. Luckily, the house I rent...the man was very very understanding of my story and didnt even run a credit check. Needless to say Ive never been late on a rent pmt in over a year. I wont be able to buy anything in the next 10 years but at least I'm rebuilding. If I would have stayed w/ him, I would have never been able to even rebuild.
Re: It's so hard to do it on my own... Traded_In: [quote author=sosad05 link=topic=34545.msg360578#msg360578 date=1158084334"> Yes, my credit was completely destroyed. I had no choice but to file bankruptcy.
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Awww, that blows. I'm sorry.
