Re: Paronia or Reality - your mate checking out others. Your thoughts, please. icwtsmnl: wow, i could have written that post. i've always had the same feeling.
these posters are right that you have to go with what feels right to you. Chances are that he will never change, and your reaction to his behavior will never change, no matter how hard to try to convince yourself. in fact, in time it will become more and more resentment.
regardless of whether he is currently cheating or might in the future, you have to be in a place where YOU feel comfortable.
Re: Paronia or Reality - your mate checking out others. Your thoughts, please. Harold: I've never known a normal man who doesn't look at other women occasionally. It's simple human nature. Men look at men when they go by too and it means nothing. Neither does the business of looking at porn especially on the internet. On the internet it is almost impossible to get away from the stuff with popups and the distinct possibility of your browser being hijacked to 'sitonmyfacedaddy.com' because of some malware or cookie in your registry. I've known several women who've had issues with their guy (or boyfriend) looking at other women and it's never been something they really needed to be concerned about if the guy was over sixteen. I've also seen that line of thinking break up more than one relationship when the woman became absolutely obsessive about it. No guy likes to feel as if he's being kept on a leash like some sort of dog. If he really is a horny mutt that you have to worry about roaming the alleyways for tail than let him do it and when you catch him (which you will if he's that dumb) dump him like a sack of garbage and be happy to be rid of him. If, on the other hand, you become neurotic about it and harp on him incessantly he will eventually either leave you or need to be neutered in which case you'll be stuck with a very unhappy and disinterested excuse for a man.
Re: Paronia or Reality - your mate checking out others. Your thoughts, please. katelyn: funny, I never seem to get random unsolicited porn just popping up all over my screen.
OMG it's everywhere I can't get away!!!!
What a load of crap.... typical guy.
Re: Paronia or Reality - your mate checking out others. Your thoughts, please. Harold: [quote author=katelyn link=topic=34561.msg361482#msg361482 date=1158176370">
funny, I never seem to get random unsolicited porn just popping up all over my screen.
OMG it's everywhere I can't get away!!!!
What a load of crap.... typical guy.
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and a typical bigoted remark from a sniping shrew with a hate on for men... see a shrink!
Re: Paronia or Reality - your mate checking out others. Your thoughts, please. katelyn: Get over yourself.
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