when is it time to say enoughs enough?? painfulopportunity: My wife left me last december saying she loved me - but wasn't in love with me - no contact for 7 months. She re approached in july this year saying she now had the energy she should have had last year to work on us. She was full of energy, passion and will. we did not move back in together but decided whilst we attempting to reconcile that we would leave the kids in the family home and we would rotate in and out each week. I have the kids for a week then she does. She is still very confused and unable to commit. I am nearly at my wits end. I am sad, and sometimes very iompatient with her. She wants this to work - but is terrified. She is working in counselling with all of her issues and is trying her guts out. I am saying to her - I love her enough to set her free on her journey - but deep down I think I am completely out of energy for this. i love her to pieces... but I feel like i'm on the end of her string and she dangles me like a puppet. what do do hey??
