Oh man I need help quick rhhope: I need help. If you have read my story than you know the awful stuff I have been through this year. I can't actually file for divorce until Dec. and I am not legally separated, my wife just left about 8 months ago. Anyway, this hot 21 yr has been flirting with me for the past couple of months. She came right out and told me she was going to come to my house today for sex with no strings attached. Being a guy I was like hell yeah. But the more I think about it the more I am getting second thoughts. I know this girl has feelings for me and physically I am attracted to her but that is it. I don't want to use her just to make myself feel good. Plus I am not looking for a relationship and I am still not over my wife. I need advice because I have been lonely but I don't want to do this to somebody that I know has a crush on me. Help please. God, I hate being a nice guy.
Re: Oh man I need help quick Fjord Girl: I think you just took care of your doubts. You're not over your wife, you're not ready for this, you don't want anyone getting attached to you. If you really can't deal with this, then don't do it. It may look like a wonderful thing now, but based on what you said, there will be a lot of room for regrets later.
Re: Oh man I need help quick gdaisygirl: Dear Hope,
My suggestion is don't do it. It wouldn't be good for you at this time and I think it would just play into more confusion on your part and if you know for sure that this woman has feelings for you it wouldn't be fair for her either.
I know you will do what you think is right but I truly feel that if you do go through with it there could be some issues ahead.
I don't know your circumstances but you say you still love your wife...are you trying to work things out?
Good Luck, Stay Strong :)
Gdaisygirl
Re: Oh man I need help quick rhhope: In my heart and mind I would love to work things out with my wife. But she did some awful things to me and left without a care in the world. I would just like to ride this thing out until the divorce is final. If I did that then at least I know I did everything for this marriage. I am scared if I did this today not only would I end up being more confused but I would lead I very nice young lady on.
Re: Oh man I need help quick So_Lost: Ummm...
Ok ignore the women who reply to this question bud.. They will all tell you NOT to do it! I mean come on, they are women!
She is 21, she is hot, she wants you! Live a little! You have been going through so much pain, you deserve a little pleasure to take your mind off of it. Think about your needs a little. If there is anytime in your life where it is ok to be selfish, now is that time!
DO IT!
EDIT: One day you will get over your wife, and then you will regret not doing this. You will always look back on this as a missed opportunity. You will ALLWAYS wonder what it could have been like.
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