Re: For the Fathers Out there.... EssieDotCom: my whatever you want to call him as pertains to me, hasn't seen our kids since april, and that was for one day bc i was nice enough to drive up to his grandparents and spend the day with their daddy, the day b4 he left on a 6 month curise.. the time before that he saw them at xmas for what 2 days. He's enlisted Navy and lives in SC and we live in wv, so he can't almost not help that he doesnt get to see them. but he has no exucse not to call or write, but wouldnt ya know it, he has every excuse not to write or call; yeah i understand the phones go down on the ship at times and you cant always email, but he's written lets see how many letters to the kids since he left for curise, 1ish, and he only sends them an email whenever he can bc i complained about it. It hurt the other day when i heard the words "daddy doesn't care anymore" come from the mouth of my youngest, 4 yr old, son.
For the Fathers Out there.... cheatedonagain: How can you go without seeing or talking to your kids? Would you be able to?
My ex doesn't know anything about my youngest. He sees him a few hours a month but has no idea who he is....which is probably a good thing since my oldest's heart keeps getting crushed.
He hardly sees his dad and never talks to him on the phone. He tried calling his dad to tell him about Cub Scouts last night and the OW answered his dad's cell phone and was a complete b-tch! We have been going through our divorce since January...since catching him with the OW. I find that no contact works best for me but when my kids are involved I think they should be able to call their dads cell phone and have him answer or leave a message...not have to talk to someone that their dad still lies about living with.
How can a father be ok with treating their own flesh and blood like that?!?! I wouldn't be able to live without seeing my kids every day let alone hurting them over and over again. I truly feel he put himself and the OW (and her kids) before his own!
Re: For the Fathers Out there.... angelfire: Some people are just that selfish >:(
Sorry for what your children have to go through...they truly are the ones who lose the most in a divorce.
Re: For the Fathers Out there.... cheatedonagain: [quote author=angelfire link=topic=34580.msg360946#msg360946 date=1158155785">
Some people are just that selfish >:(
I agree he is very selfish. You think you know someone and then find out that you never really knew them at all! I just hope my kids come out of this ok and don't end up like him!
Re: For the Fathers Out there.... Peaceandquiet: He's a piece of Sh!t.. sorry no other explanation.....
I can't stand being away from my kids.. and I talk to them at least three times a day the weeks they have to go to the ex's.
