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Re: I can't do this. sadconfused4: Oh....I started therapy right after we broke up, and it's fine....but right now our sessions basically consist of me BAWLING for an hour while my therapist tries to get a word in edge-wise....to remind me that he's an alcoholic and bad news all around.

What kind of drugs?  I am just so sad.  I know time heals everything....blah, blah....it just seems so out of reach.  So far off....I just can't believe this.

Thanks everyone.  I KNOW I am not alone in this....but that doesn't make any of it easier.  EEEW.  Thanks for the nice words.  That does help. 
Re: I can't do this. hr: You are doing better than you think. You are reaching out for help here on the board instead of keeping it all inside yourself. This shows you are stronger than you think. Honey the two month mark was the worst for me. Give it just a little more time. You are going to see it will look up in a few days.  A good counselor may help you. It helps you get the feelings out. HUGS>


Re: I can't do this. Crystal_Blue_024: Hey hun.... It might be time to think about ADs (I'm actually suprised your therapist hasn't mentioned them) if you have been stuck like this for an extensive period of time, feeling nothing but loneliness, hopelessness, and sorrow, it's not a bad option to find out about... Ask your doc, see what he/she thinks... there are lots of different choices out there... You don't have to fight this fight with no help at all... I've been on Lexapro (20mg) for about 2 months and it has helped me so much, along with Trazadone at night to help me sleep... Hang in there hun!!!
Re: I can't do this. So_Lost: [quote author=sadconfused4 link=topic=34598.msg361454#msg361454 date=1158175132">
What kind of drugs? 
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ahh... they are a lovely breed of drugs called...

Selective Serotonin Reuptake Inhibitors (SSRIs)...

They make life so much better...
Re: I can't do this. gabefredrick: While I'll never know exactly how you feel right now, the words you wrote could have come out of my own mouth. There is nothing easy about what you are feeling and I'm not going to tell you it will get better, etc because it drives me insane when people keep telling that to me. All you can do is breathe, and know you are alive. There are a lot of people in the world that would love the chance for a broken heart. You had something that a lot of people never get the opportunity to feel, and for now that missing something is ruling your world. In time something else will come along. It might be a someone or a something. Until then, try to learn as much as you can and keep telling yourself that this is making you a stronger, more empathetic human being. Because it is, it really is.

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