Would you be there chaotic: My X and I made arrangements for her to come by and pack stuff up next week that she has been keeping at my place.
Both nights are nights I would normally be in Capoeira class. I can attend on the opposite nights to be at the house while she is there. But I am not sure if I want to be at the house.
Would you try to be there when your X is packing up or would you get out of the house?
She is bringing a couple single friends to help so that might be one reason to stay.
Re: Would you be there gpiilani: I would not be there just because I dont think I could handle it. But, if you dont trust her, as in she might take something or snoop around, then I guess you should be. My husband still has a ton of stuff at our house, I am currently trying to figure out how to tell him to come get it all. Weird how he left me, and I am afraid to piss him off!!! But when he does, I know I wont be there, I couldnt take watching him take all his stuff out the door.
Re: Would you be there PennyLane: When my ex came to get the rest of his stuff 10 months after he left, I already had it packed up and sitting in the garage.
I agree, if you trust her not to take anything you don't want her too and not to snoop in your things, I'd be gone.
At the same time tho, I wonder about her bringing her friends into the picture. I wouldn't like that. Girls tend to snoop around.
Re: Would you be there chaotic: Good point. The problem with leaving it in the garage, is giving access to my garage. I have ALOT of my stuff out there.... motorcycles, Kayak, road bike, mountain bikes, etc. I think I am going to be there when she gets there, and leave, but return before she leaves. Not really worried about her snooping. What is she going to find? Loveletters SHE wrote to the OM?
Re: Would you be there PennyLane: Sounds like a good plan.
leave a few ladies phone number laying around. :o
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