Life sucks. masterlow: 1) Parent's are going broke and have no idea what to do.
2) My Father wants to move into his own apartment and have my Mother move in with my Grandmother.
3) My Sister is having a nervous breakdown at University.
4) Noone has heard from my drug dealing/using Brother in almost a month.
5) My best friend is in rehab for drug addiction.
6) I'm still miserable about my break-up and I have let ungodly amounts of work pile up. My boss is going to figure it out next week and I'm going to get my a$$ chewed out.
7)The earliest thearpist appointment I could get is almost a full month away.
I'm sure there is more. Nothing positive at all going on in my life right now, and I'm not dealing with any of this very well.
I know you OJARians are sick of my constant shows of weakness. I never follow No Contact, I still think my Ex is going to come back, and I continue to disregard much of your valuable advice. But this is who I am...I guess. I still really appreciate this board and it's members.
Of course I called my Ex twice yesterday and even texted her this morning that I needed to talk to her. She's the only person I have had to share my feelings with for the past 3 years, and I just so desperately need a shoulder to cry on right now. No responce...
Life sucks.
Re: Life sucks. masterlow: Just got more bad news:
By best-friend has been kicked out of re-hab for some violation of policy. I'm picking him up in a couple hours.
:(
Re: Life sucks. CDNgurl: I'm sorry you are going through this. Sadly, no one said life was easy or fair for that matter.
Why is life a walk in the park for some?
Why is life tragic event followed by tragic loss for others?
Because life is not fair or easy by definition. Life just is.
(((hugs)))
from someone also in category b
Re: Life sucks. masterlow: Now my father is calling me in tears. I haven't heard/seen my father cry except for when his father died. This is too much.
I'm drowing in my tears. I don't know what to do. Please G-D help me.
Re: Life sucks. Cherry: Hang in there. I cannot make it all go away, I can say I understand what a heavy weight life can be sometimes.
As much as you love your family, you cannot do anything right now. They have their path and so do you. I am not saying don't be there for them but remember to take some time to be gentle with yourself. Take some time for you. It can feel overwhelming many times. I have spent many times looking back on my life wondering how the heck I have made it thru so many hurtful times. You can do this. We are here to support you.
[quote"> I know you OJARians are sick of my constant shows of weakness. I never follow No Contact, I still think my Ex is going to come back, and I continue to disregard much of your valuable advice. But this is who I am...I guess. I still really appreciate this board and it's members.
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Don't ever say that again. IMHO a man who can show his feelings and talk about things is truly strong. We ALL fall down. We are all human. You are not weak or foolish. You are hurting and that is something we all understand. ANYTIME you need to you had better post here.........or else.......ummm cant think of anything to threaten. LOL. But seriously, dont feel that you shouldnt post when you get down. Ojar and the people here have dragged me thru by the heels of my shoes many many times. That is what we are here for.
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