Re: 6 Years today iya: inked
hang in there it will get better. its been a while since i have been on ojar, but why have you not left her yet?
i have to say that i have recently found out that my spouse has BPD and that is why he is the way he is. he is currently getting treatment for it. its a mental illness where the person has no empathy and its a me, me, me mentality.
sometimes i wonder if most of the spouses here have something wrong with them mentally like mines and that is why they do things without remorse. ???
Re: 6 Years today brielle123: I'm sorry you are going through this Inked. At least you are with friends and not sitting at home by yourself on this day.
Try to enjoy yourself, just think of it as another day...not what day it should be.
Hang in there.... :)
Re: 6 Years today Wherezmygun: [quote author=iya link=topic=35036.msg369112#msg369112 date=1158958429">
inked
hang in there it will get better. its been a while since i have been on ojar, but why have you not left her yet?
i have to say that i have recently found out that my spouse has BPD and that is why he is the way he is. he is currently getting treatment for it. its a mental illness where the person has no empathy and its a me, me, me mentality.
sometimes i wonder if most of the spouses here have something wrong with them mentally like mines and that is why they do things without remorse. ???
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we are in the process of divorce basicly waiting for a court date, i have been moved out this time for almost 3 months now.
yes myself and her family and everyone else pretty much thinks she off her rocker for doing this
