This girl makes me nervous. hudson: I dunno. I've been on a few dates with this doctor lady and I'm having a problem loosening up around her. She's quite reserved and has a rather conservative lifestyle. Her house is meticulously kept and she won't let her hair down around me. For some reason I feel like I have to go out of my way to avoid offending her, although it's probably all in my head. I'm the exact opposite on all counts.
Honestly, one of the only reasons i'm giving this girl a try is because most of the successful relationships i've seen are between two people who are mostly opposite.
Any advice or comments ya'll?
Re: This girl makes me nervous. bluskygrl: Hmmmm, interesting post.
As I mentioned before I am not a "red neck woman" so I may know the other side of this story. I think that if she says she wants to be around you then she does, and if you second guess that you'll ruin it!!
But, only if she is willing to accept you "as is" in your own comfort zone.
If she is then quit sweating it, but if you find yourself needing to be someone else around her for her sake then its time to move on to somewhere you can be yourself.
Blu
Re: This girl makes me nervous. Peaceandquiet: If you don't feel like you can be yourself.. then it may not be worth pursusing.. But on the other side of the card if you think it may be what you want to be..then.....
Re: This girl makes me nervous. hudson: Thanks ya'll. I'm doing this to myself. It's not like she forces me to act a certain way or anything. Maybe my problem is that I kinda like her and I wouldn't mind seeing this little relationship go on for bit longer. So i'm on my "best" 'wink, wink' behavior around her. And that's most likely where i'm going wrong. I need to just be myself. Everyone's always saying "just be yourself" blah blah blah. But it's easier said than done.
I'll try to just be myself. But if I do and she kicks me to the curb, i'll be f#ckin' pissed! ;)
Re: This girl makes me nervous. Lumpy: Opposites attract big guy. She's probably drawn to your wildside.
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