OMG guys I just found out so much stuff! What to do? worchid76: :o I went to a convention due to my new job. I'm just standing there all of a sudden my husbands ex best friend walks up to me.
Now they just now stopped talking becaause my husband in now dating this guys wife. Yeah his that low :-\. Anyway my husbans lately has been going out of his way to tell me this really bad stuff about his friend, you know almost like he wants to discredit him. Even called him a crack head.
I know something up already.
OMG guys I got together later with this guy. And he told me sooooo much. I have been cheated on, I have been robbed, Stalked like I've mentioned before, my accounts hacked in, and my personality has been ravaged out there. He's even telling people I was told by the counselor I am by polar and should be on medication.
He gets paid under the table or cash while collecting unemployment. Now is that not ilegal ???
This guy has actual proof of adultery so I don't even want to see the pictures already. I feel like crying now :'( and I've been so strong till now.
Shoould I tell my lawyer to get the court involved on this one and do an investigation. I know we had mentioned it but not really done it yet. He is ripping me off just so he does not have to pay child support yet this guy also told me he gives money to his girlfriends like there is no tommorow.
I'm so confused and so hurt right now. To think he had all this woman in "our house" while worked then scrambled to have them out before I got off. To think he stole my phone and talked to the guy I wanted to date and lord only know what he told him. Now all the times he did not comee home after "going out" I know what he was doing now!!!
Guys I rarely vent like this but I really need you guys right now. Im feeling ill with all this info.
Re: OMG guys I just found out so much stuff! What to do? kitkat: Worchid...geesh I'm so sorry you've had all this dropped on you. "Knowing" is the double edged sword. Yeah, you want to know, for legal purposes you might need to know. However, your heart doesn't hurt any less when you find out. Whatever you're feeling just let it all out here and you know that people who care are reading it and are here for you.
I'm gonna give you a great big hug when I see you next week.
Re: OMG guys I just found out so much stuff! What to do? PiscesGoddess: I think you should tell your attorney and have his a$$ investigated ASAP! This guy is sick sick sick! >:( He is doing all of this to the mother of his children? What business is it of his anymore who you talk to on the phone? and not paying child support but keeping his fleet of women afloat? I mean of course you got the info second hand..but if your husband was trying that hard to discredit the guy it was more than likely because he knew that he would eventually come and tell you. It almost scares me what he is doing..Fight back honey! Dont let him get by with this crap...
I wish I had wiser words for you...just know Im pulling for you and I know you are strong enough to not let him get you down! And those that know you..are gonna know he's a lying pr!ck...and he's just going to dig himself even deeper.
Hang in there....
Pisces
Re: OMG guys I just found out so much stuff! What to do? worchid76: :-[ I thank you both for your reply. I'm thinking yes I'll go to my lawyer and just tell her to do what she does. She is a CPA so if anyone she'll figure this #'s game out. He is bad and now I have the proof. This guy said he has emails that have the ex Talking about this and photos and all. So I guess if he has all this them.
Kit I almost forgot I will be there!!! Thank you so much girls.
Re: OMG guys I just found out so much stuff! What to do? wally188: hi sorry for your situation. i wouldnt want to see the pics either. But at this stage you need them and the emails. To go into his private banking records you will need a court order and probable cause not just hearsay. Dont let him know you have the emails or pictures either. Take this stuff to your lawyer also a sworn affidavit from the guy talking about the money under the table will help. God bless.
