I am torn between letting my daughter go or not. guest233: Most everyone knows of my situation and how my Ex has been handling the kiddos. I have custody of all four of our children and she has very little to do with their lives. Unfortunately, my 14 YO daughter told me on Thursday that she wants to go and live with her mom again. After discussing this with her mom, we agreed that it would not be wise right now and I told her no. Today she came home from spending the night with her mom and she was very angry. I asked her what was bugging her and she told me that she was angry because I will not let her move back in with her mom. She is a very passionate person and sticks to her guns. In addition, when she came home to me on June 29, 2006 her mom and I made it very clear that she would not be able to move back to her moms on a spur of the moment basis. Changing houses every time she was unhappy with the way her mom and I handled different situations. We told her that she would need a good reason to want to move. Now I strongly feel that she wants to move strictly because she has a boyfriend up there and she wants to be around some of her friends. I don’t know what to do. I am at wits end on what to do with this.
Re: I torn between letting my daughter go or not. jannette Garcia: If your ex is not involved with their lives as much as she should be dont let your 14 YO go. She is 14, she can't just choose to move because of her boyfriend....go with your gut...you know she's better off living with you.
Re: I am torn between letting my daughter go or not. twine: Not A Chance i would let her go live with her mother, maybe after her mom has proven that she can be invovled but even then i don't think i would.
Re: I am torn between letting my daughter go or not. Alphabet Girl: [color=purple"> After discussing this with her mom, we agreed that it would not be wise right now and I told her no.[/color">
I saw this part in your post - are you sure your ex would even say yes? Because if she wouldn't then you could put it off on her as the reason why your daughter can't go live with her.
Re: I am torn between letting my daughter go or not. crushedman: IMO it depends on the kid... but for the most part I would let her go. She is old enough to make her own decisions. In due time she will appreciate everything that you have done for her.
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