Yea, it's Sunday..... Fendann: Sundays are by FAR my hardest day of the week to get through. I thought everything was going to be fine today....I've got my kids here with me, family around that loves me....but no....SHE has to call me at 1am (see previous vent at http://ojar.com/boards/index.php/topic,35086.0.html )....then she calls again at 2am, then 3:30, then 5:30, then 6, and 7:15.....
Yea, I know what you're going to say..."why didn't you turn your phone off?" Because if I did that, there would be "kid problems"....we've promised that we would always be available in case there's any problem with the kids.
Besides, once you get the first phone call, that's ALL you're going to think about anyhow....
So now, I'm still awake, it's 9:41am, haven't had any sleep, need to try and put on a good face for the kiddo's....can't let them see how torn apart I am that their mother, once a very loving and caring person, is now a cold-hearted and self-centered b!tch....
No sleep....yea, that's gonna start off my day really well...Got the kids til around 5, then I go to work til midnight.....I hate Sundays....
Re: Yea, it's Sunday..... yella: Did you talk to her other than the 1am call?
Re: Yea, it's Sunday..... alonewith2: Ask her within the first 3 seconds of the phone call what the emergency is, if there isn't one, hang up!!! Maybe that will send her a message. ???
Re: Yea, it's Sunday..... Fjord Girl: Ben, oh Ben...
She will hurt you as much as you allow her to hurt you. And next time she does something dumb like this, tell her to at least respect your feelings. Stop being so nice. If your kids are with you, then turn the phone off and get some peace of mind.
Big hugs!
Re: Yea, it's Sunday..... yella: I agree...
And on another note... if this happens again, and your mind starts racing... seriously... benadryl works wonders!
It's how I've been able to sleep for the past 3 years. ;) Knocks you right out!
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