email totallyclueless: Been a while since i posted here
Anyways its been three months since me and my fiance split. I moved back to my hometown and she's got a job with a cruise ship. The good news is since june there has been no contact between us at all (hard to do at first but i must recommend to all newbies).
So today i open my email and there is an email from her. It was just a very short email telling me that she's having a great time, but that she doesn't want to do this for the rest of her life or anything. And she asked me how i was etc etc. All told very short.
My question is why would she send this to me? She's the one who threw our relationship out the window why now this sudden interest? I don't reallly like dredging this up again since i am by no means over her. Just wondering why she would feel the need to maintain contact when she's having such a great time?
Ahh could be nothing i'm just reading into this whole thing probably
don't know why its such a big deal to me really...
Re:email cloud: For what it's worth, maybe she feels like she's in a really good place emotionally and wanted to just send a "hello" to you since some time had passed and you both are moving on.
Or maybe she's finding that cruise life isn't all that she thought it would be.
Maybe send her an email and without being too forward in your questions, ask her more about her life and emotions and stuff.
Re:email Safetykc: Very good advice Cloud!!!
It could be anything TC, she could be feeling nostalgic, or just wanted to say hi, or she could be regretting things and realizing she wants soemething more than this out of life and wants you in it.
No way to tell except to reply.
Hell, we are just a bunch of online divorcee's, not mind readers... ;) just teasing.... hee hee
Good luck though in however it turns out.
Saftey
