Re: I break his stuff Trish: No high road there in that department. He has no problem picking up my ex secretaries shit from her house to bring to the house I picked out for him and I so I have no regrets. He obviously doesn't care about all that much.
Re: I break his stuff Beren: "An eye for an eye makes the whole world blind" -- Gandhi
It's not so much that I don't think he doesn't deserve it. It's more that I just don't think it's good for people to mete out justice as they see fit. Too often, it descends into a contest of "who started it," which I find much more morally ambiguous than just sticking to the high road. Not that I think that impressing me is one of your goals in life.
Beren
Re: I break his stuff temptress: I did the something just as fun & even made some money off of it! My ex left his video game console and collection of games and controlers and accessories and when he didn't take his stuff w/ him, I took it to a hobby store and traded it all for like $100 (actual money he spent on it was well over $500). It felt great. When I decided his clothes had been hanging in my closet too long I donated them to the second hand store. He left some other belongings that I was able to sell on Ebay. Use the money to buy something pretty like jewlery he'll notice when he sees you. And don't worry about him taking you to court because unless he has a court order, possession is nine tenths of the law.
Re: I break his stuff Trish: So would you like me to apologize Beren? Really maybe one day I will but at that time, I just can't seem to get there. He broke my heart and my 3 girls hearts and so I waited a good amount of time to ditch his crap. I'm not his storage unit or his secretary. Shoot he ran off with the secretary so as far as I'm concerned. It's his problem. Even my lawyer told him to get his crap out, he chose to take his sweet time while he went to concerts, and casinos and strip clubs. I don't have any sympathy really. But yeah I do agree with you, but I'm human and a human being that was treated less than one for so long can only take so much. I'll apologize to Gandhi but not my Ex. That's fair.
Re: I break his stuff Trish: At least I was honest. I didn't come in here and pretend to put flower baskets together for the world of the hurting. I do have a very clean garage now though. Not all was lost.
I do agree with you on the point of humanity and how to act. Just right now? I'm not in that place.
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