how? EssieDotCom: how do i get my point across to him without sounding like a total bitcha?!
Re: how? yella: It depends on how strongly you believe in that point. Sometimes you have to be a bitch in order for the point to come across. ;)
Re: how? EssieDotCom: [quote"> You dont necessarly want to hear about it, but maybe you need to hear it. Maybe I feel you need to hear how things have gone from this side of things for the last year. Maybe I feel you need to see this side of things, as you said you've been trying to see this from diverse views. I feel like there's a ton of things I need to say to you, but I don't know how to go about it without sounding like a bitcha. I want to work on this with you as much as you do, but if we can't get past things... how will we ever be able to work on us? Its cute and flattering to see you get a lil green monster about things; but if what we are doing, working on us, for you, has some bases out of jealousy, then what is there really left for us?[/quote">
this is what i said to him.
Re: how? yella: I don't think that makes you sound like a bitch at all. You're getting your point across and challenging certain things.
I seriously see nothing wrong with that.
Re: how? bluskygrl: You actually sound very nice and a little too soft on him maybe ;)
This is the real deal and very serious for you, he needs to understand that and I think your message sounds great!
Blu
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