Re: thinking of the future... shpek: i hear ya. i had to stand up for myself with her and i did. she never came crawling back or anything-least that would have made me feel better. but nothing, she just left and that was it. sometimes i think i'm too nice too. i'm no doormat but i'm a good guy. i can;t be a dick because it's not me but i wont let someone walk on me either.
you all have been great by the way.
i read yes.
Re: thinking of the future... broken_halo: well she did you a favor.... i thinks sometimes its worst when they come back cuz they just set you back a few steps. It was really hard for me after 7 yrs of being w/this guy, i really thought he was it for me.... but its a good thing that it didn't get further. I hate to even imagine it.... leaving me w/kids or something...
What kind of books are you into... I've found myself reading a lot lately... after the break-up... any you recommend?
Re: thinking of the future... ezydriver: Hey shpek.
I found after the initial depression wore off I too was lonely. What I did was to get into the things I liked before I met my ex. This gave me my sense of identity back. I really felt I had to work on myself and not put too much emphasis on meeting somebody new. i know it sucks but whats another few months huh? It will be well worth waiting. Jumpimng in now will just be filling a void and bound to end in disaster. you still need to heal properly.
Re: thinking of the future... jmarie: Totally hang in there!!
Sometimes the hardest person to be alone with is yourself.
But it is good.
Being here in my new apartment by myself, I have come face to face with my fears, my hurts and who I am right now. Not who I want to be, who I thought I was, or who I'd like to be. Who I am right now.
I know it is hard because there is a time where you think to yourself, "Well! (Your Age) and divorced is not really where I thought I would be!" But here we are. Here we all are.
I'll be 25 in December. :)
Re: thinking of the future... shpek: Thanks for the input. Yeah, I've been really taking this last break up hard. I feel like I have to rebuild myself again. the contentment, happiness and sercurity (and love) I had with my X is all gone. I can't explain it but all I can say is i didnt think this would be as difficult as it's been.
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