Re: ALREADY!!! tripny2k6: She also told me that her mom had said something to her cousin about suspecting that N is talking to me again. I just hope that this doesnt all blow up before we are ready!! That really worries me. I want to do this right!
Re: ALREADY!!! hr: Trip be careful if you don't want her family to find out just yet. Parents have that intuition especially mothers. If your girl wants to work things out she probably isn't moping as much and probably has a little bounce in her step. You can't hide that kind of stuff. No matter what if her parents find out to soon don't stop communicating. I think communication is vital if you are going to work things out. Good luck buddy. Keep us posted.
Re: ALREADY!!! tripny2k6: Well, we met some place at lunch that no on really goes out to. We are going to keep it from her family as long as possible. Definately forcing us to take it slow which is a good thing!
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Well, we met some place at lunch that no on really goes out to. We are going to keep it from her family as long as possible. Definately forcing us to take it slow which is a good thing!
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What about the harrassment charge... You know that you may get into trouble. Maybe she should drop the complaint and slowly let her parents, fasmily adn friends know she over reacted ???
Re: ALREADY!!! tripny2k6: According to all advice that I have received thus far, I should not even ask her to drop the charge. It is a protective order. I just explained to her that she was breaking the order as well by coming over to my house, etc.
To be honest with you, I'm not really worried about that. She overreacted but so did I by assuming that she had been cheating on me or was with another man so soon. That may come down the road, but I think it gives her a little assurance that I will keep going for help b/c the order says so.
