Re: ALREADY!!! hr: Good luck on your counseling. The AA is awesome. It is going to be hard to take things slow and work on them, but if you don't it will soon be the same relationship it was before you separated. Keep up the work on yourself. It always starts within.
Re: ALREADY!!! tripny2k6: Thank you for your advice. As your name says, change is good. Its just a lot of work.
Re: ALREADY!!! hr: I'm right here with you. You are doing the right things. Relationships are hard work. Just think if you don't do the work you carry it into your current relationship or you take it with you to the next relationship. It is your choice. Thats the beauty of it. In your situation you have a chance to work things out and they could be better than before. I wish you all the luck. You are on the right path.
Re: ALREADY!!! tripny2k6: She just asked me to meet her outside for lunch. This was a huge step for her, she promised me that there would be no keeping this a secret on her part and she is starting to show that. She was still nervous, but she tried.
Re: ALREADY!!! tripny2k6: It was a really good sign that she is going to work on things too.
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